Posted by Bianka Emerson Southern University AM - Baton Rouge
on August 09, 2004 at 06:42:44:
In Reply to: What's Going On with the DL Brothers posted by Bianka Emerson on July 29, 2004 at 12:39:20:
: : What's Going On with the DL Brothers
I personally think MEN on the DL are disgusting, evil, and really homosexuals in denial. They are cowards, and less than a man, they are P.A.B.s! If I found out my man was on the DL, I would do him a lot of bodily, and emotional harm.
I don't like however the way the media, has made this DL thing seem as if it's a black thing. There are several men on the DL regardless of race, and it's not because they are seeing other DL men who are black! They too have jobs, images, positions and families to protect from embarrassment.
While I do believe there is no way to know, but spiritual discernment. I think the only way to find out is INVESTIGATE! Read his email, check his voice mail, call unrecognized numbers, and follow him. Look for signs, and dont be naïve, if he is doing things that are suspicious check it! You re***y want to know right? I'm looking out not just for the sistahs but for women in general. Its a shame we have to question our man's faithfulness against another MAN!!!!