Posted by Chynna Bivens None - HBCU Supporter
on July 21, 2004 at 10:53:28:
Is it wrong to have a friend who is your part time lover but your no time boyfriend? You begin to catch feelings, but he's only your friend. He's not intrested in wanting anything outside of friendship and sex. That's how you were in the beginning- but where does it stop? Now you have a boyfriend, but you still want your friend who's your lover but still only a friend. And instead of him backing up, he's welcoming you and everything you want to give him. When does it stop? Should you be straight up and tell him you can only be friends but not lovers? what if he doesn't accept that? You've gotten used to each other and will not give up so easily. Now what's more important, losing your friend who wants to be your lover, or keeping your lover who, only by chane, happens to beyour friend?