Posted by Robin Dear Jackson State University
on February 26, 2005 at 16:25:58:
It seems men and women will forever be divided on the issue regarding what's important in a relationship and why they can or cannot meet someone. Some men accuse women of being "gold diggers" and some women accuse men of being "dogs". However true or false that may be in your case, I am of the opinion that the reason some people never get into an idea relationship is because they are not honest with themselves or the other person involved regarding what they really want in a relationship. Guys shouldn't spend their time trying to get a conservative, mild-mannered woman if they really want someone who is wild and "out there". Women shouldn't get all bent out of shape if the man they chased down is extremely conservative in looks and in his handling of finances when they really want someone who is flashy and wears and drives his wealth around.
No one wants to be in a relationship where they are tolerated----you should desire to be in a relationship where you are celebrated!